![]() Listen, but don't assume either of those are the end all - be all of raising kids. Some people who are already parents (or those who either do or do not want to be parents) will alternatively try to woo and scare you about particular stages or scenarios. There is no one way to prove to yourself that you want kids or not. The annoying, unhelpful, but genuine answer is: it depends. So are these people really miserable, or is it temporary because they have young kids? Why does everyone keep saying this? However, I can't help but wonder, why does everyone say the same thing? There has to be a part of this that is true, and the more people say it, it really makes me question the entire idea of having kids. I realize that some of these statements may be intended as a joke, trying to account for their current misery. The conversation always goes, "so do you have kids?" And then when I reply that I do not have kids, the response is usually something like "don't do this to yourself" or "good, don't have them". ![]() So I've noticed that pretty much everyone I know that has kids, especially the people with young kids, make the same statement, which they try to deliver as a joke. The topic of having children can be a touchy subject, because my Wife is very adamant about having kids and I'm more like "whatever happens happens". I am a 31 year old male and I've been married for 4 years now. ![]()
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